
Peer Support
Support for families and loved ones grappling with psychological manipulation and coercive control
Sometimes what we need most is not therapy, but someone who has lived through what we are facing. I am a survivor of psychological manipulation and coercive control, and my peer support work is grounded in lived experience, careful listening, and a clear understanding of how control and harm operate within relationships and groups.
I work primarily with families and loved ones who are trying to make sense of confusing dynamics or sudden shifts in belief, identity, or connection. Through non-judgmental, collaborative peer support, I help people slow things down and ask difficult questions. My work draws on years of study in psychology and philosophy, as well as my ongoing work through Counter, the organization I founded to support recovery after coercive harm.
This is not therapy. I do not diagnose or treat. My role is to walk alongside individuals and families navigating the aftermath of high-control groups, manipulative relationships, estrangement, or major life transitions. Together, we focus on restoring clarity and connection, and on finding a way forward that does not require anyone to carry their confusion alone.
How I Work
My approach to peer support is shaped by:
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Trauma-informed practice: Prioritizing emotional safety, consent, and empowerment.
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Lived experience: Drawing from my own journey through coercion, recovery, and rebuilding.
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Philosophical and psychological insight: Weaving in meaning-making, critical reflection, and compassionate questioning.
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Curiosity over judgment: I’ll help you explore what you need with curiosity and compassion.
Who I Work With
Peer support may be right for you if you:
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Have a loved one in a high-control group or relationship.
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Are leaving or have left a manipulative relationship, group, or belief system.
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Are struggling with complex relational dynamics, including polyamory or non-traditional relationships.
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Are exploring or questioning faith, spirituality, or identity.
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Are seeking community, purpose, or belonging after rupture, loss, or disconnection.
Sessions are offered virtually and in person. You set the pace, whether you’re looking for a one-time conversation or ongoing support.
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If you’re feeling isolated or uncertain know this:
You’re not alone. There is space for you here.
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